Yeah, my best friend is a guy. I know, it's weird, especially since I'm a girl, a teenage girl no less. But you see, that's the thing, we've never really thought of it that way. He's always been there for me, I'll always be there for him, no matter what. I can tell him anything and I know that I will never be judged and that what I say will stay with him and not be broadcasted around the world. I trust him with anything. If you saw us, you would never think that we were best friends, honestly, I never thought we would be either.. He actually used to scare the stinking daylights out of me. But, as we got to know each other, I realized that we weren't all that different. We both loved music, the same bands, you know, little stuff, but I never knew that this little stuff would bring us so close. I'm not going to pretend like our friendship has always been sunshine and rainbows. Yes, I have hurt him. And yes, he has hurt me. But anytime that we are fighting or anything along those lines I seriously don't know who to turn to. Like I said, I tell him everything, and when you're fighting with your best friend, you can't talk to them about it, you know? I would seriously feel like total crud every day because I felt like i had let him down or done something incredibly wrong. And any fight that we've ever been in, I've always wanted to just throw everything behind me and say that I'm sorry. He is always there for me. His advice, jokes, and personality are seriously incredible. He really helped me to step out of my comfort zone and to stop being so shy around everyone. I don't know how he did it, but it worked. The distance kills me, but knowing that he won't ever leave makes things quite a bit better. I miss and love my bffaeuwdagthaewgtislyt.
But what do you think? Do you think boy/girl friendships work?
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